https://vulvamonologues.com Vulva Monologues Sun, 05 Jun 2022 16:56:02 +0000 https://vulvamonologues.com en https://vulvamonologues.com/Overview Sun, 05 Jun 2022 16:56:02 +0000 Vulva Monologues https://vulvamonologues.com/Overview INTRODUCTION 01 Was there a turning point to a more conscious sexual journey and how did you grow from here? Key topics: first break-up, modern day sex shops, favorite sex toys, fear of penetration  02 The 3 C’s: Communication, Consent and Confidence. Key topics: why are the 3C’s important, triggers, boundaries, shame, speaking up, self-blame, defenition of consent, communication as a foundation, struggles, age, putting yourself first, autonomy 03  Can you share a recent exploration about your individual sexual pleasures? Key topics: squirting, kink experimentation, masturbation rituals, roles, dom and sub 04  Why is it important to connect to our bodies and what activities connect you to your bodies?  Key topics: body apreciation, vulvas and bum holes, the human body as a taboo, vulva VS vagina, the clitoris showering, music, dressing up, aknowledging your nakedness, rituals, baths, mirrors, lingerie, clubing, dancing  05 An open discussion on masturbation. Key topics: Vibrators, sex toys, washing toys, being in a relationship and masturbating, Satisfyer, edging, breathing, horniness, masturbating places, fantasies, ethical porn and porn industry, rituals  06  Libido is a spectrum; What has effected your libido in the past/present? Key topics: definition of libido , personal phases, birth control pill, loss of libido, fluctuating hormones, stress, depression, a little push, what are breaks and accelerators, getting into the mood, levels of horniness, turn-ons, connecting to the body, it’s okay not to feel good, awareness 07 Can you tell me a bit about your upbringing in relation to growing up female? Key topics: diving into each of our personal upbringings and how it effected the start to our sexual pleasure journies 08 What is the importance of female pleasure and desire that resonates with you? Key topics: the importance of conversation, sexuality and geneder, confrontations, normalisation of these talks, destigmatisation, wishes and hopes, dating apps